Table Manners
Thanksgiving Day is stressful! You need to make sure the turkey is in the oven and your children are on their best behavior. After all you know Aunt Betty is watching for anything to criticize.
You can’t expect your children to have perfect manners overnight. You must work with your kids to teach them good manners. As parents you must lead by example. If your elbows are on the table and you’re talking with your mouth full don’t expect your children not to do the same. Don’t make dinner a time of lectures and scolding. Praise your children for doing the right things instead of scolding them for doing the wrong. The key is to praise and reinforce. Here are a few table manners you and your family can work on:
- Before and after meals make sure to wash your hands.
- No pet, toys or electronics should be brought to the table. This includes cell phones.
- Remove any hats before coming to the dinner table.
- Place your napkin in your lap.
- Wait until everyone is seated at the table before eating.
- Ask politely if you need anything passed at the table. Don’t forget to say please and thank you.
- Remember eating is not a race. Take your time and chew your food.
- Don’t stuff your mouth. Only eat what you can.
- When eating your food keep your mouth closed.
- If someone ask a question while you have food in your mouth wait until you have swallowed before answering.
- Avoid eating with your hands, unless appropriate.
- Bring your food to your mouth.
- Leave a little liquid in your glass to prevent slurping.
- Ask to be excused before leaving the table.
Published 10/19/11
